How do I know if I am in a right relationship or the person is right for me?

You are right for your partner when you can adjust. Relationship means adjustment, it is giving. You give what you can to your partner and wait for t…

How to get rid of Suffering?

There are 2 reasons behind your suffering: 1. Ignorance – we are miserable due to our own ignorance 2. Old karmas - we are experiencing something now…

Can we withdraw from our commitment?

Question - Can we withdraw from our commitment? Gurudev - Yes, and when can that happen? That can happen when Viveka(discrimination) awakens within …

Is it necessary to fast every week?

We fast not to please the Divine, but to cleanse our body. You overwork your liver, stomach and pancreas so much. If there was a labor court for the bo…

How can you get more grace in life?

Anugraha means grace. Nothing is possible in life without anugraha. When you receive a lot without making efforts for it, then it is said that you are…

What should i do if people hurt me?

It is not people who hurt you. It is your own foolishness, your own mind, your own vulnerability and your own emotions that entangle you, and make you …

Why does love cease to exist after marriage?

Question - Gurudev, when there is love between two people, they decide to get married. Then why does the love cease to exist after marriage? Gurudev…

What should you do if people around you keep reminding you of your past mistakes?

Question - What should you do if people around you keep reminding you of your past mistakes? Gurudev -  Smile and move forward. If they are not able…

How to get rid of hatred?

Put yourself in the shoes of the person you hate. A youth came to me once and said, "I hate my uncle, I cannot stand him". I said, "Okay, you can cont…

How to develop the ability to make good decisions?

There are two main reasons why you are unable to take decisions. 1. When there is some feverishness of desire attached to it; or there is some greed. …